Are you wondering if your special someone is about to pop the question? I’ve been there! After going through it myself and talking to tons of newly engaged friends, I’ve picked up on 17 telltale signs that a proposal might be coming your way. Let me share what I’ve learned in this fun guide to spotting those pre-proposal clues! :)
Shouldn’t it Be a Surprise, Though?
Plenty of people love surprises… and plenty don’t. Anyone in a serious relationship who’s wondering if their partner might be planning to pop the question might want to be a bit prepared for that magical moment. That’s why I’ve created this guide so you can be ready if it comes.
17 Signs He Is Going to Propose Soon
1. He’s suddenly very interested in your jewelry preferences
I remember when my now-husband started asking about my favorite gemstones “out of the blue.” At the time, I thought he was just being sweet, but looking back, it was a major clue!
If your partner is asking questions like:
- “What’s your favorite type of metal for jewelry?”
- “Do you prefer round or square stones?”
- “What do you think about vintage-style rings?”
…then there’s a good chance he’s doing some ring research!
2. He’s saving money like crazy
Has your usually spendy guy suddenly become a budget master? This could be a big sign he’s saving up for something special – like an engagement ring!
Some money-saving behaviors I noticed:
- Skipping fancy dinners out
- Picking up extra shifts at work
- Talking about financial goals more often
Is your normally cool-as-a-cucumber partner suddenly jumpy when his phone buzzes? Or maybe he’s being weirdly vague about weekend plans? These could be signs he’s trying to keep the big surprise under wraps!
3. He’s getting chummy with your family and friends
If your guy is suddenly BFFs with your dad or constantly texting your bestie, he might be looking for some feedback on the ring or asking for their blessing!
4. He’s planning a suspiciously romantic trip
Has he suggested a dreamy getaway out of nowhere? Or maybe he’s insisting on a fancy dinner at that place you’ve always wanted to try? He could be setting the stage for a perfect proposal!
5. He’s talking more about the future
When my husband was gearing up to propose, he started dropping hints about our future together way more often. Listen for phrases like:
- “When we have our own place…”
- “I can’t wait to grow old with you.”
- What do you think about having a fall wedding?
Is he suddenly super interested in your work calendar or making sure you’re free on a specific date? He might be trying to plan the perfect moment to pop the question!
6. You catch him looking at you with heart eyes
I noticed my guy giving me these intense, lovey-dovey looks in the weeks leading up to his proposal. If you catch your partner staring at you with pure adoration, a ring might not be far behind!
7. He’s being extra affectionate
More random hugs, cuddling, kisses, and “I love you’s” than usual? This could be a sign he’s feeling extra emotional about taking your relationship to the next level!
8. His friends are acting weird around you
If his buddies are giving you knowing looks or being extra nice, they might be in on the secret! I remember my husband’s best friend practically winking at me every time I saw him before the proposal.
9. He’s suddenly interested in your ring size
Has he casually tried to figure out your ring size? Maybe by comparing hand sizes or “borrowing” one of the rings from your jewelry box? Major proposal alert!
10. He’s talking about other people’s engagements
If he’s bringing up friends’ proposals or asking what you thought about them, he might be fishing for inspiration!
11. He’s getting in shape
Did your guy suddenly start hitting the gym or eating healthier? He might be trying to look his best for those proposal photos!
12. He’s planning more “us” time
More date nights, weekend getaways, or cozy nights in? He could be trying to create special moments leading up to the big question.
13. He’s being extra careful with his phone
Sure, this could be malicious, but hopefully, you both trust each other enough to not worry about things like that. If he’s hiding his cell phone from you, he’s likely hiding a number of things including:
- Texts with your mom, sister or best friend
- Emails or notifications for major purchases (like a moissanite engagement ring)
- Emails or notifications for his surprise or romantic outing when he pops the question
So don’t fret if he’s acting a bit more clingy with his phone. He probably doesn’t want to ruin the surprise that he is planning to propose.
14. It’s close to your birthday, an anniversary, or a special holiday
Timing is everything! If you two have a special date including your anniversary or another celebration, he may want to celebrate that with a proposal. It’s also very common to be proposed to on:
- Your birthday
- Christmas
- New Years Eve
- Valentine’s Day
So keep that in mind when these special dates approach.
15. You find ring ads in his browser history
Oops! Sometimes technology can give away the surprise. If you happen to spot engagement ring websites in his search history, well… you might want to start planning your nail appointment!
16. Other people’s wedding don’t make him gag
“Eh, I’m just looking forward to the free food and open bar” – a phrase uttered by boyfriends all across Northern California and probably the world. But then out of nowhere, your boyfriend is suddenly excited to go to your friend’s wedding…for reasons other than food and booze. If he asks you questions like:
- What did you think about the wedding venues?
- What did you think about their food choices?
- Did you like their wedding theme?
These are all indicators that he is likely thinking about a wedding of his own, with you, in the near future. This is a great sign that he is going to propose.
17. He starts putting the toilet seat down
Okay, all jokes aside, if your man is starting to act more “domesticated,” he probably wants to show you that he is worthy of sharing a home with you for the rest of your lives.
He’s likely only going to pop the question if he’s certain that you’ll say yes, so he wants to do everything in his power to prove to you that he’s worthy of your love and affection. And yes, this may include picking up some slack around the house. It’s a win-win!
Helpful Tools For the Wedding Proposal-Pending
- Ring sizer app: Download a free ring sizer app to discreetly figure out your size.
- Pinterest: Create a secret board to save your dream ring styles.
- Proposal planner: Some cities have professional proposal planners to help create the perfect moment.
- Manicure subscription: Keep those nails looking fresh with a regular mani delivery service.
- Couple’s journal: Start documenting your love story now, so you’ll have it to look back on after the big moment.
Proposal Fun Facts
|
Fact |
Percentage |
|
Proposals that happen on vacation |
40% |
|
People who knew the proposal was coming |
50% |
|
Proposals that include the phrase “Will you marry me?” |
85% |
|
People who cry during the proposal |
60% |
FAQs: For the Soon-to-Be Engaged
What are the best proposal nails?
Ooh, great question! I’m a big fan of neutral colors that won’t distract from your new bling. Think soft pinks, nudes, or even a classic French manicure. If you want a little extra sparkle, try a subtle glitter accent nail!
What should I wear if I think he’s going to propose?
Girl, I’ve got you covered! Opt for something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. A cute, casual dress is always a good choice – it works for almost any setting. Pro tip: choose an outfit with pockets in case you need to stash a tissue for those happy tears!
How do I hint at what ring I want?
Subtle hints are key here! Try leaving your Pinterest board of dream rings open on your shared computer, or casually mention how much you love your friend’s emerald-cut diamond when you’re out together. You can also enlist a trusted friend to drop some hints on your behalf.
How can I make sure my nails are always proposal-ready?
I swear by weekly at-home manicures! Keep a neutral polish on hand (pun intended) and touch up any chips ASAP. If you’re really committed, consider getting gel nails for longer-lasting perfection.
Should I have a backup plan in case I ugly cry during the proposal?
Honey, ugly crying is totally normal! But if you’re worried, stash some waterproof mascara and a mini touch-up kit in your purse. Remember, he loves you – tears and all!
How can I subtly find out my ring size without giving away the surprise?
Try on your bestie’s engagement ring and note how it fits, or measure a ring you already own that fits well. You can also get sized at a jewelry store “just for fun” and casually mention the size to your partner later.
What if I accidentally find the ring before he proposes?
Oh no! If this happens, try to forget what you saw and let him have his moment. The surprise might be spoiled, but the love behind it is still just as special!
How can I drop hints that I’m ready for a proposal without being too obvious?
Talk about your future together, share cute proposal videos on social media, or plan a visit to a jewelry store “just to browse.” You can also mention how happy you are in the relationship and how excited you are for your next chapter together.
Wrapping Up Our Proposal Prediction Party
Remember, these signs aren’t foolproof, but they can be fun clues to watch for! The most important thing is the love you share, whether a proposal is coming soon or not. If you have a gut feeling that it’s coming soon, take a deep breath and enjoy the anticipation. Maybe treat yourself to a manicure, practice your surprised face in the mirror, and get ready for one of the most magical moments of your life! Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to go paint my nails… you know, just in case!
